Volunteers are the heart and soul of REACH

Can you picture the spring retreat volunteers – leaving children and jobs, hobbies and housework behind in favor of investing their time, energy, and hearts into the REACH families? When there is down time, can you see them inventing games and activities to delight the kids? When joyful messes are piling up, notice them tidy up as they continue to visit and engage. Can you see their heads bowed over colorful award certificates, dreaming up the very best words of affirmation to speak over REACH kids as they receive their awards? As the volunteers leave, do you hear them thank us for the opportunity to participate?

Do they realize that their presence makes REACH the beautiful community that it is?

Spring Retreat breakthrough

Spring retreat had some complexity – families enduring rush hour traffic to arrive for check-in, last minute illness and cancellations, staff and guests trying out a new-to-us camp facility, bursts of rain, cold temperatures, unexpected meeting room glitches… You might think of these things as a recipe for stress or struggle. But if you were to catch a glimpse of the reality of spring retreat, you would see warmth, peace, authenticity, and togetherness… all helping people rise above HIV stigma.

Picture 11-year-old “Liam.” He’s been coming to Labor Day Camp for 4 years but is introverted enough that as the camp dates approach, he asks if he can stay home. When the answer is no, he acquiesces but requests frequent breaks from the social camp experience to unwind in the cabin with a parent.

But this spring is his first time at smaller, more laid back retreat… and he seems like a different kid as he joyfully plays balloon volleyball, climbs to the top of the climbing wall multiple times, and bursts with pride as he shows all of REACH his “super-sharp” saw he constructed from duct tape and foil. Everyone who knew him before noticed him blossom throughout the weekend beyond all expectation. But he put it into words for us when he walked on stage during the awards ceremony, grabbed the mic and announced, “This is the weekend I got comfortable at REACH.”

Circle of Hope Breakfast 2023


 

Circle of Hope Breakfast
Thursday, May 11, 2023, 7:30-8:30 AM


Life Center Church,

1717 S Union, Tacoma

 

 

 

Please Join us on our Annual Circle of Hope Breakfast. It is a free, one-hour breakfast and is a key springboard for raising unrestricted operating dollars to fulfill our strategic plan to double the number we serve by 2025. 100% of donations from attendees will go to REACH programs and our expansion initiatives. You will be investing in dignity and hope for children, families, and adults facing rejection because of HIV.

Most people with HIV try to keep their status private because of the rejection and isolation they will encounter, even from their closest family and friends. Speaking publicly takes deep courage, which is why the Circle of Hope Breakfast is a rare opportunity to truly understand the physical, social, emotional, psychological, and spiritual impact of HIV/AIDS. REACH currently journeys alongside over 100 HIV-positive children, teens, and adults … plus over 370 of their family members. REACH is for the whole family because HIV affects the whole family. We feel called to double those numbers in the next few years.

Check-in starts at 7:10 AM

Program will run promptly 7:30-8:30 AM

The breakfast is a free event. Guests will have an opportunity to make a donation during the program. 

Seating is limited, and we are taking reservations now!

RSVP by April 25th to Cecilia Bryan at  cbryan@REACHministries.org or (253) 383-7616.

Sign up here

To learn more click here

Join us in praying for the retreat

Our spring retreat is coming up March 24-26 and we rely on your prayers to make the time fruitful — replacing isolation with safe community, replacing stigma with unconditional acceptance, filling hearts up with joy and trust. These lofty goals can only be accomplished through the power of the Spirit! Thank you for partnering with us in this.

To adopt a time slot and receive a Spring Retreat prayer guide, follow the link below.

https://reachministries.org/Staging/prayer-vigil/

Welcome, Cecilia Bryan!

 

We are thrilled to announce a new REACH staff member: Volunteer and Events Coordinator, Cecilia Bryan!

Cecilia has an extensive background in event planning and volunteer coordinating. She is thrilled to be combining these skills with REACH’s meaningful mission. She loves bringing joy and smiles to the faces of children and families who need it the most.

Cecilia is a wife and mom of two who grew up in Mexico, then attended college in Canada where she met her husband and moved to Tacoma!

When Cecilia wants to learn a new skill, she watches YouTube and perseveres until she figures it out. You should see her cookie-decorating skills! We can’t wait to learn about Cecilia’s other hidden talents.

If you’re coming to Spring Retreat, you will meet her there!

Remembering Brian together

Nineteen members of the REACH community convened in Lynnwood to grieve and celebrate the life of beloved volunteer Brian Inch. Slide shows revealed that the charismatic, ear-to-ear “Spry” grin that we have loved since 2014 has been permanently etched on Brian’s face since birth.
Camp will not be the same without “Spry,” and his impact at REACH will not be forgotten.

2023 Theme and Spring Retreat

Our overarching REACH theme for 2023 is WORKS IN PROGRESS. If you have ever chafed at your imperfections… gotten impatient with certain emotions that repeat for you… wished that your loved ones were different than they are… We invite you to step into our 2023 theme, take a deep breath, and experience the freedom of embracing the fact that we are all works in progress! When we let that reality wash over us – that we (and our loved ones) are beautifully imperfect just as we are – then good things result. Humility. Anticipation of growth. Patience and compassion given freely to ourselves and others. All of this moves us toward a flourishing life. We are excited to explore this theme with our stakeholders, volunteers, and participants all year long!

Our first opportunity to dive into the theme as a big REACH community will be at Spring Retreat, March 24-26. Whenever we introduce our theme to the families, we discover nuances and depth we hadn’t thought of before. We look forward to finding out what moves them, as we all learn and grow together.

We also look forward to those adventurous bonding moments that will be shared on the climbing wall, human foosball court, axe throwing range, mini golf course, and canoes. We hope we can fit everything we have planned into the weekend!

“We always come right back into the fold, like no time has passed.” – REACH Parent

“I can carry all the joy and community that I experienced over the weekend throughout the rest of my
year.” – REACH Teen

“My camper told me, ‘anyone you trust, I trust.’” – REACH Volunteer

Will you join us during the weekend of March 24-26 through prayer? Sign up here.

REACH is hiring

Volunteer and Events Coordinator, 20 hours/week

Administrative Coordinator, 12 hours/week

Do you know someone who would love to join a healthy team doing meaningful work?
Check out the job posting and see if it’s a good fit!

Volunteer and Events Coordinator

Administrative Coordinator

A Lifeline for Parents of HIV-positive Children

“Mom guilt” is a familiar term that exists because mothers so commonly feel like they have failed as parents in some way. This guilt can be especially paralyzing for adoptive parents of HIV-positive children, as the kids have experienced severe trauma which creates complex needs. At REACH, parents are confident that they will be accepted and loved no matter what, so they are willing to honestly describe their parenting challenges and the questions they wrestle with. Because of this gut level honesty, other parents have the open invitation to respond honestly and say, “me too!” Through these conversations, moms and dads are no longer alone in their fears and questions. The relief of this experience comes through in the following quotes from three separate moms:

“[I love] knowing there is someone to communicate with that understands.”

“I always feel trust to share openly.”

“I really count on friendships made at Camp to validate my struggles and make me laugh.”

REACH Theme Connects Deeply

Our REACH theme for 2022 – Love Without Limits – exceeded our expectations. It connected deeply with kids, teens, adults, volunteers, and staff. One volunteer said that experiencing the theme at camp has reshaped her view of how she wants to live her life. And she knows it will continue to be a part of everything she does in the future. After a breakout session focused on the five love languages, a REACH mom commented, “I guess I’ve always known my husband needed words of affirmation. But I realized this weekend that I haven’t been giving him what he needs at all.” When the single adults were asked to name someone who has loved them well, several of them named REACH individuals they have known for years, including specific examples of how they have been loved in action. While parents were discussing that love is an action, a decision, and a skill that can be sharpened over time… one parent stood up and said, “I am feeling so convicted! I need to call my wife and encourage her right now!”