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New Friends with HIV that Immediately Feel like Old Friends

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By Pam Wenz, REACH Director of Family Services
In April, REACH did an intake phone call with “Lisa,” and she attended support groups on Zoom off and on in 2025, but with limited talking or sharing of her video. When 2026 arrived, Lisa had still never met any REACH staff or participants in the flesh. I suggested we should use Presidents Day to get together — I said I could pick her up and together we could drive to meet up with two other REACH women in her area. She was eager for this to happen.

Once the four of us were settled in the apartment kitchen, setting out snacks, coffee, and tea… I saw the power of how much people trust REACH. For the first hour I could barely get a word in edgewise with these three as they shared stories, backgrounds, experiences, foods, faiths… In passing, the topic of Acceptance* came up.

Once we were cozily settled on couches, I found a gap in the conversation and asked the women if they’d be willing to take turns sharing with one another how they were able to come to a place of acceptance with their HIV. Lisa shared first. Her answer wandered to many painful places in her life story, but never quite touched on Acceptance. When she was done, I said, “It sounds like you are still on your journey toward acceptance.” She nodded that this was true. Her new friends shared next, showing vulnerability as they described their journey toward acceptance.

At the end of our gathering, Lisa asked for the other women’s phone numbers, which they readily provided.

For the first time, she experienced the level of safety she needed to talk about her status.

For the first time, she has personal friendships with people who understand life with HIV.

*Acceptance is a common topic that people living with HIV reflect on. For many of them, the days following initial diagnosis of HIV is not characterized by acceptance of this new reality. Perhaps they feel denial, fear, panic, blame, or many other things. But acceptance usually comes more quietly. And quite a bit later.

Thank You to The Puyallup Tribe for Investing in Families living with HIV

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Thank You! Thank You! Thank You!

We are deeply grateful to the Puyallup Tribe Charity Trust Board for awarding REACH Ministries a generous $21,000 grant—marking the third consecutive year we have been honored with their support. The Puyallup Tribe’s ongoing commitment to supporting families and individuals living with HIV continues to make a meaningful difference across our region—and we are profoundly thankful for their continued support of REACH Ministries.

On December 15, our team had the privilege of attending the Puyallup Tribe’s grant awards ceremony. From the moment we arrived, we were met with warmth, hospitality, and a genuine sense of community. It was inspiring to be in a room filled with so many organizations doing meaningful work across our region. The Tribe’s commitment to uplifting such a broad spectrum of worthy causes is making a tangible, lasting impact, and we feel truly privileged to be included in such good company.

REACH is currently in a season of significant growth. On average, three new households join our community every month—on top of the hundreds of children, families, and individuals we have served over the past 30 years. This growth reflects both the increasing need for support and the trust families place in REACH as a safe, welcoming space.

The Puyallup Tribe’s $21,000 grant will allow us to fully welcome dozens of new families in 2026. This is huge. For many families, their first experience with REACH is at one of our two annual weekend getaways or through other family connection events held throughout the year. These large, in-person gatherings are where relationships begin—where families realize they are not alone.

Once welcomed through these events, families are connected to all of our year-round support, including online support groups, mentors, and personal visits. Together, these programs create consistent, genuine relationships rooted in acceptance—relationships that help individuals and families not just survive, but truly thrive.

We extend our heartfelt thanks to the Puyallup Tribe for their continued belief in our mission and their investment in the well-being of families across our community. Your generosity is helping build connection, resilience, and hope—one family at a time.

Thank you for this generous grant

November at REACH: Connection, Creativity, and Community

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As the holidays approach, we’re looking forward to a month filled with warmth, gratitude, and opportunities to connect! Whether you join us in person or online, November offers something for everyone in our REACH family — from shared meals to creative projects and heartfelt conversations.

Here’s what’s happening this month:

🍂 Saturday, November 15 | 5–7 PM
Thanksgiving Potluck Dinner – REACH Office Building
Join us for our annual Thanksgiving Potluck! Bring a favorite dish to share and enjoy an evening of community, gratitude, and laughter. Everyone is welcome — families, volunteers, and friends old and new. RSVP Here: https://form.jotform.com/252786488028168

💬 Monday, November 17 | 12:00 PM (Zoom)
Positive Adults Support Group
A supportive space for HIV-positive adults to connect, share experiences, and build community from wherever they are.

🎨 Wednesday, November 19 | 11:00 AM – REACH Office
Creative Expressions: Wooden Signs Workshop
Join us in the office for this month’s Creative Expressions session! We’ll be making personalized wooden signs — a fun, hands-on activity to express creativity and unwind.

🌿 Wednesday, November 19 | 7:30 PM (Zoom)
Lifetime Survivors Support Group
For those who were born or have lived with HIV since early childhood. This group offers understanding, encouragement, and meaningful discussion.

👶 Tuesday, November 25 | 11:00 AM – REACH Office
Moms with Young Kids Support Group
A relaxed, supportive gathering for moms raising young children while navigating the challenges of HIV or caregiving. Kids welcome!

🌈 Wednesday, November 26 | 4–5 PM (Zoom)
Teen Creative Expressions Group (Ages 12–19)
Our very first Creative Expressions for Teens! We’ll meet on Zoom to make a fun craft together — supplies will be shipped directly to participants. Open to youth ages 12–19, whether they are HIV-positive or not.

If you have a teen or know someone who would enjoy joining, please contact us soon so we can send their art kit in time!

November is all about connection — and we’re so grateful for every person who makes REACH the supportive, welcoming community it is.

🌟 October 2025 Events at REACH – Connection, Creativity & Community!

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What Events are happening this October at REACH…

At REACH Ministries, every month is filled with opportunities to connect, create, and grow stronger together. This October, we’ve lined up gatherings that lift spirits, build resilience, and remind us we are not alone on the journey.

Here’s what’s coming up:

🎯 Mentor Support
📅 Friday, October 11 – 9:30 AM
A chance for our mentors to gather encouragement, share wisdom, and recharge as they walk alongside others.

💻 Positive Adults Support Group (Zoom)
📅 Sunday, October 13 – 12:00 PM
For adults living with HIV since their teens or later in life. Come share your story, listen, and connect with others who understand.

🌈 Lifetime Survivors Support Group (Zoom)
📅 Tuesday, October 15 – 7:30 PM
For those who were born with or acquired HIV during childhood. This group offers an empowering circle of peers who’ve walked a similar path.

🎨 Creative Expression at the REACH Office
📅 Monday, October 21 – 11:00 AM
This month’s project: Clay Alebrijes! ✨ These colorful, imaginative folk-art creatures from Mexico are full of personality and fun to make. No art experience needed—just bring your creativity and curiosity!

☕ Ladies Zoom Chat
📅 Friday, October 25 – 10:00 AM
A relaxed virtual space for women to laugh, share, and uplift one another. Bring your coffee (or tea!) and join us from home.

👨‍👩‍👧 Parents of Positive Kids Support Group
📅 Date/Time TBD
For parents caring for children living with HIV. Details will be shared soon.

💬 Whether you’re joining us online or in person, these events are designed to be welcoming, uplifting, and hope-filled. October is the perfect time to try something new—come create art, find connection, and build resilience with us.

✨ Together, we are stronger.

September at REACH: Connection, Support, and Creativity

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Each month at REACH we gather in different ways — some online, some in person — to connect, share, and create. September’s schedule has something for everyone, whether you’re looking for support, community, or a little creative time with others check out our events below.

🌟 Positive Adults – Zoom

📅 Monday, September 22 at Noon
This monthly group is for adults living with HIV since their teens or later. It’s a place to check in, share experiences, and find encouragement with people who understand the journey firsthand.

🌟 Lifetime Survivors – Zoom

📅 Wednesday, September 24 at 7:30 PM
Our Lifetime Survivors group is for individuals born with HIV or who acquired it in early childhood. These monthly gatherings are a chance to connect with peers who share similar life experiences and to build community together.

🌟 Creative Expression – At the Office

📅 Tuesday, September 30 at 11:00 AM
This month’s Creative Expression project is Keychains with Meaning. We’ll provide beads, charms, and even shrink-plastic art (yes — Shrinky Dinks are back!). Add a word, sketch, or symbol that speaks to you and turn it into something you can carry with you every day.

And of course, we’ll have coffee and snacks while we create together.

💜 How to Get Involved

  • To join our Zoom groups (Positive Adults & Lifetime Survivors):
    Contact Pam
    📧 Email: pwenz@reachministries.org
    📱 Text: 541-612-0616
    ☎️ Call: 253-383-7616

  • For Creative Expression:
    Contact Cecilia
    📧 Email: cbryan@reachministries.org
    📱 Text: 385-208-1303
    ☎️ Call: 253-383-7616

 

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Labor Day Getaway: Resilience shines despite HIV stigma

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At Labor Day Getaway, the warmth of REACH embraced eight new attendees and three new volunteers. As always, we could see our community in a fresh light through their eyes. Somehow, in a balance difficult to achieve, long-time friends excitedly caught up with each other and new participants were joyfully welcomed.

Here are a few snapshots:

  • A teen coming off a difficult year, found the strength to sing a solo in front of everyone. Her bravery came from the moral support of one friend and one volunteer doing “interpretive dance” on either side of the stage to take the spotlight off her. All three performers were wildly entertaining. Two in the silliest ways, and one in a sincere heartfelt way.
  • A mom still reeling from recent traumas plus the daily stresses of life gravitated toward a young adult she could encourage and befriend. They even shared the same heart language.
  • A tween arrived glowering and departed smiling and giving hugs.
  • Five young children became the best of friends. Staff and REACH parents giggled when the kids would say, That’s my brother.” “Hey, sister!” and “Those are my kids over there.” Yes, the 3-year-old dubbed the slightly older children her “kids.”
  • At her third consecutive REACH Getaway, a young mom felt safe enough to share a brief, timid glimpse into the dark times in her past and how she sees so much more life and hope now. She had told us previously that she wanted to share more but was not ready. What a privilege to earn her trust.

A first-time participant told us, “It is good to find a family.”
A single adult said, “Sharing our experience was a relief to me. I was so comfortable to say anything without being judged.”
A teen said, “I am new here. It was perfect. I’ve learned to be resilient.”

Celebrating 30 years of support

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REACH Ministries Receives MultiCare Grant to Impact 205 HIV-Positive Families with Support, Mentoring, and Education

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2024 Multicare grant recipient

At REACH Ministries, an organization dedicated to supporting HIV-positive individuals and their families, we believe that flourishing starts with community. That’s why we are delighted to share some exciting news: we have been selected as a 2025 recipient of the MultiCare Health System Community Partnership Fund award! This grant is a testament to our unwavering commitment to supporting HIV-positive children, adults, and their families through safe, judgment-free programs.

About the Program

The awarded program, Adherence to Health Care and Social Services Plans for HIV-positive Teens and Adults, strengthens our efforts to provide:

  • Support Groups: Safe spaces where individuals can connect and share their journeys without fear of judgment.
  • Mentoring: One-on-one guidance and encouragement to help participants navigate their unique challenges.
  • Family Services: Activities and education that foster whole-family resilience and understanding.

Who We Serve

Our community is inclusive and diverse, including:

  • Children born with HIV
  • Parents with HIV
  • Teens who contracted HIV on the streets
  • Adults who are “lifetime” survivors (they’ve had HIV since infancy)
  • Adults recently diagnosed
  • Immigrant and refugee families
  • Older Adults aging with HIV

Many participants come to us feeling isolated or burdened by secrecy. Through REACH, they discover the power of being truly known and supported by a community that understands.

How the Grant Will Be Used

This grant enables us to grow by:

  • Forming five new partnerships with HIV clinics and social workers, who will refer patients and clients to REACH.
  • Conducting participant intakes and providing ongoing education and encouragement.
  • Hosting engaging welcome events to introduce new participants to our fun, judgment-free community.

Impacting Lives Together

REACH currently serves 155 HIV-positive participants and their 317 family members. With this grant, we aim to reach 50 additional individuals plus 125 of their families by the end of 2025, touching a total of 647 lives.

We are profoundly grateful to MultiCare Health System for their trust in our mission. Together, we are creating a healthier, more hopeful future for those living with HIV.

Join Us

Follow along as we grow our programs and continue to provide life-changing support. Let’s celebrate this milestone and the lives it will impact! ❤️

About MultiCare Health System

The following is an excerpt provided by MultiCare Health System:

MultiCare Health System is a not-for-profit health care organization with 13 hospitals and more than 26,000 team members. We are committed to achieving our mission of partnering for healing and a healthy future and delivering world-class health outcomes and exceptional experience.

As the largest community-based, locally governed health system in Washington state, our comprehensive system of health includes numerous primary care, urgent care and dedicated specialty services. For more information, visit MultiCare.org.

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January 2025 Events at REACH Ministries

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